Wednesday, February 18, 2003
I have a test in two hours but writing this was just inevitable; I had to answer Soroush. I never said I am against sex, having sex, having a crush, wanting to have sex, premaritial sex, hymen reattachment surgery, homosexuality, biosexuality, sleeping around, so on and so forth! In fact, I am hardly against anything! If people choose to live that way and are happy like that, all powers to them! I may not do it myself (and if you wanna know why refer to my Friday's post), but it's a free country! And I don't remember ever saying that I don't want to have sex. In fact, in my Friday's post, I admitted that I do have sexual feelings and desires. I just don't know how to employ them. I remember saying that I am antisexual, or asexual, but then I defined it as someone who doesn't know how to use her sexual desires correctly. Lust, according to the Merriam Webster Dictionary is defined as "intense or unrestrained sexual craving," and "licentious craving, sexual appetite." Worse, in the thesaurus, it's compared with "animalism." Considering these are the definitions for lust, I wouldn't call my sexual desires lustful! I use sex as an expression of affection, not aphrodisia, this doesn't mean that I don't have any longing and craving towards the people I like to have sex with, but affection is number one element; it's the key! I don't know if you meant these by lust, but next time look in the dictionary before throwing words at people!
PS. Aside from this! I don't need to bring people any reason for not looking for lust! If I say I am not, that's sufficient answer!